What he said:
"Hey,
I'm sorry if you're still hurting; I hadn't realized. I know ignorance is no
excuse, but it's all I have. I'm sorry if you've started feeling resentful, or
jealous, or even if it's just hurt. I didn't, and still don't, want to hurt you.
Did something change? I still think of you as a friend, someone who I can talk
to and hang out with. I didn't want to change that at all. Was it something in
specific that I did?
Please, if you've got a grievance with me, let me know.
-Tony"
What I said:
You know, it amazes me that you have such a lack of basic human understanding.
1) No, I didn't intend for shaune to get hurt by it
2) I didn't intend everyone to be able to read it, only those whom I specifically tagged and whom I had previously discussed it
3) I didn't once say she was a whore or anything of the like, all i said was that this was the reason I wasn't jealous
4) you have no idea how much time i spent trying to figure out exactly how she was better than me, and it simply occurred to me that it doesn't matter, she isn't in anyway.
5) I find it a horrible disservice to shaune that when i go out of my way to mention that you have a new gf who is awesome and nice you later say that you don't have a gf.
6) friends TALK to each other and have to trust each other enough to share anything. I don't trust you in the slightest at the moment, you have broken any trust I had and removed any respect for you by your lack a civility and common decency to those around you.
7) I am not responsible for what my friends think or say and if you'd like to know exactly what i said and what was said, I will send a copy to you.
8) I find it appalling that you seem to have absolutely no ability to form and continue an emotional attachment, i fondly hope that you don't hurt shaune the way you did me.
Does that help in anyway?
To sum up, I am angry at your lack of manners and your unwillingness to put any sort of effort into maintaining a relationship. I am amazed at your ability to portray feelings without feeling them and I find you a coward who prefers less direct means of communication than simply telling a person you want to break up, in March when you knew in January.
I'm sorry if you're still hurting; I hadn't realized. I know ignorance is no
excuse, but it's all I have. I'm sorry if you've started feeling resentful, or
jealous, or even if it's just hurt. I didn't, and still don't, want to hurt you.
Did something change? I still think of you as a friend, someone who I can talk
to and hang out with. I didn't want to change that at all. Was it something in
specific that I did?
Please, if you've got a grievance with me, let me know.
-Tony"
What I said:
You know, it amazes me that you have such a lack of basic human understanding.
1) No, I didn't intend for shaune to get hurt by it
2) I didn't intend everyone to be able to read it, only those whom I specifically tagged and whom I had previously discussed it
3) I didn't once say she was a whore or anything of the like, all i said was that this was the reason I wasn't jealous
4) you have no idea how much time i spent trying to figure out exactly how she was better than me, and it simply occurred to me that it doesn't matter, she isn't in anyway.
5) I find it a horrible disservice to shaune that when i go out of my way to mention that you have a new gf who is awesome and nice you later say that you don't have a gf.
6) friends TALK to each other and have to trust each other enough to share anything. I don't trust you in the slightest at the moment, you have broken any trust I had and removed any respect for you by your lack a civility and common decency to those around you.
7) I am not responsible for what my friends think or say and if you'd like to know exactly what i said and what was said, I will send a copy to you.
8) I find it appalling that you seem to have absolutely no ability to form and continue an emotional attachment, i fondly hope that you don't hurt shaune the way you did me.
Does that help in anyway?
To sum up, I am angry at your lack of manners and your unwillingness to put any sort of effort into maintaining a relationship. I am amazed at your ability to portray feelings without feeling them and I find you a coward who prefers less direct means of communication than simply telling a person you want to break up, in March when you knew in January.
