Last Night/ This Morning

So I'm up at home for the weekend, but because I was planning on leaving very early in the morning, some problems arose.

You may remember that back in March, my roommate, Kristi, and I were having issues and signed a Roommate Agree. One of the stipulations was that her boyfriend would only come over Wednesday, Friday and Saturday nights, otherwise, Kristi would ask us in advance.

Last night was Thursday. I'm packing my room and getting the stuff I'm planning on taking with me. I come into the living room to see Kristi and Tim blowing up the air mattress. I say no, and am informed by Kristi that her boyfriend can stay over whenever she wants. She says she's taking it to the RA, Shanay. I grab my copy of the roommate agreement and follow. Shanay agrees with me and says that we need to follow the agreement, so Kristi calls me a "crazy b*tch" and leaves. I thank Shanay for her help and go clean my room to calm down.

I'm getting my shoes on to go buy more trash bags and am closing my door as Kristi comes in and asks, "What are you looking at your f*cking b*tch." Now, I don't respond, I just grab my keys and head over the RA's apt which we were at just a few minutes before. I tell Shanay what happened and find out that Kristi's mother called Shanay and started cursing her out for being on my side.
Ironically, the reason we are going to Shanay is because my building RA, Kevin, was accused of being biased by Kristi. (see a pattern).

Now, I REALLY don't want to go back so Shanay says she'll call the RA on duty, LJ. LJ comes over and we start telling her everything that happened, midway through the retelling, LJ gets a call telling her that the cops are coming to my room for a well being check for Kristi. Apparently, Kristi's Mom called the police asking for a "Well being" check. Which is really just a way to get cops into our apartment on probable cause.

Kristi isn't even there, she and Tim had left.
Kristi comes back.

By this time, I'm back in Shanay's apartment because the RAs and I are trying to figure out why the police are involved.

The police ask Kristi what happened, apparently during her retelling she is cursing so much that the male cop gets irritated and tells her that she needs to stop disrespecting him. The female cop asks me what happened and I tell her.

They consult... and consult.. and decide that Kristi and I are both getting Summons in front of the Dean of Student Judicial Affairs ( the honor council). That's right, by her mom calling the police, this is no longer a housing matter, which could be settled with one of us moving. No, now we go in front of the Dean who is in charge of expelling people. I give them my free will statement, Kristi has left again so they can't get one from her. They get one from the RAs and I am told that I can't go back to the apartment because Kristi might try to make this into a "physical altercation".

So I go into my room and grab a pillow and blanket, tell Holly that I'll call her after the cops have left and proceed to make a bed for myself on Shanay's couch. I call holly and tell her what happened. She moves all the boxes I had packed and ready in the living room back into our room.

I call my Dad to tell him I'll be leaving a little earlier than expected. He ends up calling the ODU police, specifically Officer Evans, the male cop whom I dealt with, and Evans' superior Sgt. Green. Green says that if I feel comfortable enough I can sleep in my room, but that he recommends against it and that if I do, to lock my door.

At 3 am, I get a call from Officer Evans asking me to call him if I see Tim again. I tell him I won't be there this weekend and he says, "Whenever's fine, it doesn't have to be this weekend."

So, I decide that its a bit stupid to try to drive 3 hours on an hour of sleep (I had been planning on leaving at 4 to escape traffic). I call my dad and tell him I'll be leaving around 8. (getting 4 hours of sleep is a little smarter... right?) When I'm leaving, Kristi still hasn't returned and I think what is pissing me off the most is that Kristi's Mom said she was worried about me HITTING Kristi. Now, 1) I don't hit girls, 2) I'm not that stupid, 3) She's been closer to hitting me than I have EVER been to hitting her.

I just figured I should tell you guys what was going on. I didn't really intend it to be this long a post.